Bottle of Wine: Every hostess appreciates a good bottle of wine. It doesn't have to be really expensive; a
good bottle of Chardonnay will do the trick. You might even get to enjoy the wine that night with the hostess. Of course you
don't want the hostess to feel obligated to use your bottle of wine, so open the door for her to use it at a later date. Just
tell her, “This is for you to enjoy at a later date and think of me when you do.”
Wine Glass Charms: If you suspect others might be providing the wine,
or you know for a fact your hostess will be serving wine, then some nice wine charms for guests to slip onto their glasses
will make for a practical gift.
Flowers: It
may seem cliché, but flowers really are always appreciated. If you get ones that are already in a vase, then it will be even
more appreciated because the hostess doesn't have to stop entertaining to cut the stems and put the flowers in water.
Candy or Homemade Treats: Sweets are always a nice treat.
A gift basket filled with nice chocolate bars or (if you enjoy baking) some cookies, brownies, or muffins will be a great
way to say thanks. Also, some homemade jams might be a special treat. Add a custom label to the jar so the hostess remembers
you every time she uses your homemade jam.
Christmas
Ornament: It's the holidays, so why not try a nice ornament that can be added to the hostess' tree. You can pick
up ornaments after Christmas really cheap and stash them away for the following year. Or if you're crafty, make or decorate
your own ornament.
Gift Basket: Are
you spending the night at your hostess' house? If so, this requires a bigger thank you gift. Gift baskets with a theme are
a great way to go. A movie night gift basket filled with a few popular DVDs and bags of microwave popcorn and candy, or a
breakfast basket filled with muffins and various coffees and teas will make for a great hostess gift.
Game: A family friendly game is a unique gift. Be careful with this, though,
because you don't want to get a game they already have. So try to do your homework and find out what kinds of games the family
enjoys playing and what they already have.
Lottery
Tickets: Scratch off lottery tickets could be right up the hostess' alley and they are inexpensive. If you're feeling
stuck with the hostess who has it all and not wanting to get the same-old, same-old types of gifts, then a well-written thank
you card with a few scratch off tickets might be just the ticket (pun intended).